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[quote=Anonymous]I don't know where to go with this and am hoping you all can help. I have been lucky (I guess that's the word) in that my family has not had fertility issues. But pregnancy is seriously complicated for me. There are risks: stillbirth, hospital bedrest, extreme preemie, etc. Pregnancy is a nightmare, but technically it is possible. Because my last pregnancy was so completely horrible, painful and emotionally traumatizing not just for me, but also for my family, my husband and I have decided to use a GC. We're not wealthy by any means, solidly middle class, but we have scraped and sold our house and miraculously raised the money to do IVF several times and hire a GC. We want another child. I have been terribly naive about this process. I started calling clinics this week and THREE have said they will not work with us because our reasons for using a GC are not serious enough. I haven't even been able to speak with the REs about it. I had no clue that clinics might turn us away. So I'm devastated and scrambling. Does anyone know of a clinic, anywhere on the east coast that will let you use a GC, "just because". Although we think our reasons are incredibly valid! I guess our reasons aren't serious enough for the docs. We were turned down at Genetics & IVF, Shady Grove, and CCRM. Thank you[/quote]
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