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[quote=Anonymous]I think the focus here is not on the actual visits but the guilting - the use of guilt as a tactic. Being resentful is not healthy. I don't know how direct or passive your family dynamic may be. You could address it head on 'I do miss you and want to see you, however making me feel guilty is not going to work.' Once this dynamic is cleared then the fogginess of the whole issue could lift. I think twice per year is good. You could do a long week with a red eye. [/quote]
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