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[quote=Anonymous]I tried once a year or two ago, when I first felt an inkling of this.  It's different now, though... I feel a complete sense of relief when he leaves for a trip.  I don't have to worry about fixing a meal he won't like, or him asking me for sex (and I like sex - but he doesn't really touch me otherwise, and that hurts and is just overall numbing).

We've done counseling in the past.  He just doesn't take responsibility.  If he tells me anything that he needs me to do to improve our marriage, I literally stop everything and fix it.  And I do my damndest to make sure it doesn't happen again.  I've told him about this, touching me, being engaged with me and the kids.  He just doesn't try.  And I really think he thinks everything is ok.  He feels like I won't let go - but he never tries to fix the problems. Or it doesn't feel that way at least.  And I try not to bring it up constantly.  But we probably have this conversation 3-4 times a year about big issues impacting our marriage. The last one that really blew up was about a year ago now.[/quote]

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