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[quote=Anonymous]I am currently 9 weeks pregnant. My partner and I were not trying to conceive, but someone with such a low possibility, it happened. We were using all precautions and it still happened. Right before I found out I was pregnant I was supposed to have surgery. This of course had to be cancelled due to being pregnant. I was weighing the options and trying to determine what to do. This has been such a hard experience for me and has made me depressed. Pretty soon after I found out I became very ill and was diagnosed with hyperemesis. I can't keep anything down, not even water. I am on several medications and have to have iv treatment daily. I am not financially able to take care of a baby. I do have a full time job, but it does not pay well. I never thought I would be a position where I would need to make a choice of either having the child or having an abortion. I have missed a lot of days of work for being so ill and am now being threatened about my job. I don't know what to do. My partner wants more kids, but not now. We always said one day, but not any time soon. I feel as though I am losing my mind. I can't even get out of bed most days due to my condition. There is a chance it could get better but I won't know until after the twelfth week. I welcome any advice you may have. [/quote]
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