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[quote=Anonymous]Why are you being passive aggressive? What do you hope to prove by having her continue to lie to you when you know the truth? Absolutely you should not celebrate the anniversary. Tell her that you know she has been unfaithful and that you have proof, and you can either go straight to a divorce lawyer or she can start being honest if she wants to stay married. Otherwise, what on earth is the point? Why hide your proof and drag out her dishonesty? It's just awful limbo for you. The defensiveness about her "private life" is bullshit. You two are supposed to be partners. And while you both can fairly expect privacy to a certain degree - whatever degree you negotiate is fair - the "you violated my privacy" defense is typical of a cheat and a liar -- it's a dodge to deflect responsibility for their violation of your vows. Life is really, really, really short. Just get on with it and be honest with her.[/quote]
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