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[quote=Anonymous]This morning I went to my husband's computer to print something (it's the only computer in the house hooked up to a printer) and found that he had last been watching a porn video.  That was upsetting for a variety of reasons, but when I pulled up a different tab to access my e-mail account, up popped a dating site.  I couldn't access it because a username and passcode were required.  When I went to the Bing main page it showed a host of sites - some porn, some dating - that he frequented.

I am gutted.  I'm 29 weeks pregnant with twins.  We have a young daughter.  It was our 9th anniversary yesterday.

The porn bothers me because I have tried everything possible to enhance our intimacy over the years to no avail.  My H has insisted his libido is down because of medication he takes.  Obviously, I now realize that this is not the case - he just isn't into sex with me.

The dating site is the most painful, though.  I have no idea if he's actually been unfaithful (i.e., carrying on a relationship with someone else), but a dating site is close enough for me.

I confronted him and he responded angrily that I don't "take care of him" and respond to his needs.  I strongly refute that.  In any case, what now?  I have obviously been living a lie and take responsiblity for that.  Want the best for our kids.  What H to be happy but recognize that might not be with me.  I want to be happy, too.

Any constructive advice would be much appreciated.  I'm definitely very alone right now.

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