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[quote=Anonymous]Women might understand this more than you men, so if any men are reading this post, bear with me here.

So, I am going through a break-up. It was a mutual break-up, no one dumped anyone and there are no third parties involved. We both pretty much agreed that we just couldn't be together anymore and so we split about three months ago. It's not a nasty, messy break-up. No threatening, stalking, harassing, etc. There has been no contact on either end.

My issue?
Normally I am happy and content with things. When I was with my former boyfriend, I just wasn't happy for a multitude of reasons. Long story. I do not regret my decision at all and am one hundred percent confident I made the correct choice as did he in ending things. My quality of life is so much better now. I no longer feel I have to walk on eggshells. I can do whatever I want, whenever I want and am enjoying being single and independent.

However, every month...when I have my period, I start to really miss him. A lot. ONLY during [i]my period.[/i] I start to remember only the "good times" we had. The times we used to hug, kiss and snuggle. I remember the sweet things he used to tell me and how comforting and secure our relationship made me feel at the time. Then I start to want him back. I am so tempted to pick up the phone and call him just to either a). Hear his voice answer or b). Listen to his voice message recording. I have to practice so much willpower to stop myself. Last night, I almost gave in, but my sister luckily came over.

Here I sit tonight, thinking about him. I know this is only temporary and by the time my period ends, I will be wondering to myself, "[b]What the hell was I ever thinking??!"[/b] like I always do.

TMI Alert:
My periods are usually very heavy in duration and last about five to six days.[/quote]

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