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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's a fair thing to ask - no reason that you should have to do it all the time. I do think though that while I would be seriously annoyed by family that did that too, I would also try to honor DH in choosing to try to reach out to them for these things if he wanted to. They sound like they probably won't change, but if you were able to change your perspective to more of something that you're doing for him while still privately knowing that they'll decline then it might take stress out of it for both of you. I can only imagine (unless you and he are having a huge family together) that the occasions for life event invitations are fairly finite. Know that they are who they are and don't let them rain on your special days.[/quote] OP again. That sounds very reasonable. I'll let him send the invites to them and support his personal need to do so. And I'll ask him to support the fact that I just can't/won't anymore. [/quote]
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