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[quote=Anonymous]My lifelong best friend (known each other since college) and I live about an hour away. She has been the sister I never had. Anyway, I have been married 20 years 3 kids happy life. She was married with 2 kids but was in a very unhappy marriage which she finally got the confidence to leave about 2 years ago. Soon after she lost 15 lbs had a little nip and tuck and looked better than she has ever looked, she is naturally very pretty also. So she started dating casually and while away on business met someone who she came back to me and said she was very excited about. To make a long story short, they married last year, he is a great guy. About 10 years old wildly successful and takes great care of her. The thing is I have seen a big change in her since she married. Her ex was well to do but not on this level. Think 3 homes, fancy cars, never a care about money,etc...but I have seen a shift from my normal grounded friend to telling me all about the merits of buying couture and how they are buying a condo in The Grand Cayman Islands and how she just hired a top local decorator to redo their new home, etc....I am sure some of you are going to say are you jealous? I mean of course there is a tiny bit of jealousy, anyone would be BUT more than anything I don't like the person she is becoming. I can't relate to her and while I am truly happy for her and her blessings i am afraid if I am losing interest she will turn off others too.

So the question is, do I say something to her about how I am feeling? I feel like we have so much to lose, a lifetime of friendship and I hate feeling this way about her because I care for her like a sister but this newfound personality I think she is 'trying on" makes me not want to be around her at all.[/quote]

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