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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH just came home from the hospital after bypass surgery a few weeks back.  He told me today that if I continue to create the stress on him I created before the surgery about the house, my career vs. his, child care, etc. that he wants a divorce.  He says he doesn't want me to "kill" him.  I am really upset b/c I was so worried about him easing up to, during and after the surgery that I feel he is being unappreciative.  When I asked him what he means by stress I create, he said have related an atmosphere of "emotional oppression" in the household [b]where only my feeling my feelings matter, not his nor our children's.  I really don't understand what he means. [/b] He said I need to get therapy myself and we also need it as a family.  I do not believe in therapy or hanging out my feelings to a total stranger. Am I really going something wrong, is he having some sort of crisis or is he just being a jerk?[/quote]OP, if you don't understand what he is talking about -- and it sounds like you really feel clueless about it -- then that suggests that you [i]are[/i] unaware of other family members' feelings. You should go to therapy.  If this is true (and I said [i]if[/i]), your kids need room to breathe - they need to know they're feelings are okay and not everything is about mom.  Good luck.[/quote]

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