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[quote=Anonymous]For me it was always a choice between being with DH and being single, not other men. I have gone through long periods of missing being single, in large part because I was well-socialized to be a good girl and take care of other people before taking care of myself and it's easiest to take care of my own needs when I'm alone. Two things have helped me: 1) carving out time and space for myself separate from my relationship 2) watching both my mom and MIL blame their unhappiness on their husbands and then fall apart when the men died. Made me really examine whether sometimes the problem is with me, more than dh. OTOH, are you sure that everything else is fine with your relationship? Only you really know. At any rate, get more space for yourself and then see how you feel.[/quote]
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