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[quote=Anonymous]You might find he feels that opposite. You gave him a gift when all he wanted was for you to take the time to plan a night out with friends. So while getting a gift says I care to you, maybe it doesn't to him, and planning a dinner out with friends is a disappointment to you but maybe to him that would be what says I care. Read the Five Love Languages - often people assume that others want and need what they want and give accordingly rather than actually figuring out the others wants and needs, that may be quite different from your own. Personally for me as a woman, I would far rather my husband plan a dinner out with friends than buy me a cheap gift at the mall. So I don't see your boyfriend as being insensitive - for me what he did would be meaningful and significant. I don't really care about a gift for the sake of a gift. [/quote]
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