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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your dynamic with your sister sounds very familiar to me. I'm the oldest and have this kind of see-sawing/only there when I need you/constant drama dynamic also. Mine isn't quite as hurtful as what you're describing though. But like a couple of pps said - you can only control how you decide to react/manage/respond/engage - you can't change her. It is EXTREMELY difficult to rewire your emotional reactions for something like this. But if you can find a way to work on it you can probably free yourself from a good deal of the drama, and even teach her that her games are largely a waste of time. Best of luck to you.[/quote]
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