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[quote=Anonymous]We moved from a larger house and ever since moving into our current house our basement was used for storage.  I worked out deals with my DW that I would purge and for every trash bag she would reward me (which would be considered a reward for her by most DWs).  After over 8 bags and several years, my DW has never lived up to her side of the deal on any of the huge stuffed contractor trash bags.  Since moving into the house, I have purged enough to put my office, my closet and a lot of new family stuff in the basement.

My DW nags me about the basement, but I never have the free time that she has... Which is another irritation...

Since the Trash bag deal.. We have had several deals where I make progress towards what I commit to and she makes no effort but to complain.  The marriage has other issues that have made me want to end it.. Ironically, I need to clear out the basement before we can end it.  So I have started to find the items of value new homes via eBay and other places that would value the items.  To my DW, all of my stuff is trash and I should just throw it all away.. But it is worth more than $10k if I find the right buyers which I have started to look for...  One annoying thing is that sometimes when I have found people to take some of the items the plan falls through...

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