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[quote=Anonymous]You describe the options for interacting with your SIL as "suck it up and be fake or ignore her." That is very telling. From your description, she hasn't done anything too horrible; it just sounds like the two of you don't get along. A mature adult who values relationships would do their utmost to find aome common ground with a woman who is very dear to people who are very dear to you. An immature person who loves drama would look for reasons to dislike a woman with whom they perceive competition for affection and would try to get others to choose sides. You are sounding a lot more like the latter. Either we are missing the actual offensive things your SIL has done to you and your sincere efforts to mend fences, or you are as much a part of the problem as she is, but YOU are the one actively trying to exclude HER from her own family.[/quote]
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