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[quote=Anonymous]Funny, OP you are apparently having the same internal debate that I was having yesterday but came to the opposite conclusion.

I have no scientific evidence to back this up, but after a year of TTC post-ectopic and my first failed IUI, I am realizing that I may be in it for the long haul. I've decided the only way I'm going to make it through this process without becoming an emotional basketcase is if I resign myself to the worst possible outcome now and stop getting my hopes up each month. I realize it sounds extremely negative, but for me at least, I think I need to make peace with my worst fears if I'm going to keep from having a meltdown each month and try to enjoy my life as best I can.  Doesn't mean that I'm giving up on trying to get pregnant, just going to keep my expectations at a minimum and mentally prepare myself for other possibilities (i.e. adoption) now, even if I don't start down that road just yet. Then if I do get pregnant, it will be a great surprise. [/quote]

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