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[quote=Anonymous]My brother and I don't really get along with rest of our immediate family.  The only exception is our mother who we are both close with.  I am sure the rest of the family has complaints about us.  We just don't get along.  Last year we decided not even for our mothers sake we were no longer going to spend holidays with people we don't like.

This year along with our spouses/kids and a couple of cousins we decided to spend this holiday season together.  We have not made any solid plans yet but we are def not spending with the toxic bunch from years past.

So anyway my SIL the self appointed head of the family sent out her annual TG info of where she has decided the family will be spending TG .  I put declined.  She emailed me right away and asked me why I would not be attending.  I said "We made other plans but thanks for the invite".  My brother and 2 cousins declined her invites as well.  SIL has been the cause of a lot of family drama and I avoid her like the plague.  She loves to cause drama and twist your words.

So I thought nothing of her invite again until a few days later when I get a message from my good SIL (were best friends) saying toxicSIL is at it again check facebook.  That crazy b!tch wrote on her facebook wall:

[quote]I am so upset right now.  I found out 2 of DH’s siblings are trying to hijack the holidays and split the family apart.  They are planning their own little gathering and are only inviting family deemed worthy of their presence.  So upset right now for hubby!!  ?  Family is supposed to stick together especially around holiday time.[/quote]

My cousin then jumps in and he swears the devil made him do it:

[quote] Go look in the mirror and you will see the reason why people don't want to spend the holidays at your house.  I refuse to spend one more holiday with a bunch of fake ass people.[/quote]

After that it turned into a blood bath. Its only August.  Oh well at least there is no doubt whatsoever where we stand with each other and how we feel about each other.
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