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[quote=Anonymous]I totally understand, OP. Although I'm not yet there, I actually think about this situation very often. It is a huge change. You're whole role and importance in life has changed. But the other PP's are right - you need (we all need) to keep busy and find some purpose in our lives other than our kids - as hard as that might be. Think about what interests you - what you used to find interesting. Maybe go back to school or volunteer. You need to surround yourself with people. And know that it is so normal to feel like this. You have been blessed ... you ARE blessed ... but children are not with us forever. You've done a wonderful job. Now you need to do a wonderful job in another area. Your kids will really look up to you if you can find something new in your life. My friend's mother retrained as a lawyer in her 40s! But do see a doctor if you can't find the energy to push yourself into something new. Good luck.[/quote]
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