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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hate to break it to the smug set who says their kids are following the rules because they set them - they are most likely not and are hiding it from you.[/quote]

Oh FFS...I was waiting for that response.   :lol:  Yeah, my kids are grown now, just as open with us as they always were, and I knew where they were & what they were doing during their teen years.  They were extremely busy with school, sports, and extracurriculars, and then we had dinner as a family and the kids did HW until bedtime.  On the weekends, they had some friends over, or we did things as a family.  It's impossible for some people to believe that you can set boundaries and kids/teens will actually abide by them.

I think the attitude quoted above is why some parents throw up their hands and figure, "Why bother?"  My three siblings and I all followed our household rules, too (and we were raised atheist, as my own kids were, so there was no higher power threat or anything like that).  I respected my parents then and now and didn't believe it was kind or just to push the envelope.  I'm sure there are some personalities who wouldn't do well in that setting, but there are people like myself, my sibs, and our respective kids who love structure and a rules-driven framework.  For the most part, we call ourselves geeks.   :mrgreen: [/quote]

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