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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry, OP.  that's annoying.

Anemia is a symptom, not an illness.

If I were you, I'd view her behavior as attention seeking and give it as little response as possible.

When she says " I can't do anything" or any other medical complaint, say "I'm sorry to hear that."  Then move on to something else.

When she asks about your child, in utero or know, practice the following "The doctor says he is doing perfectly."  And again, move on.  Don't share any non-perfect information with her unless it is absolutely essential (e.g. she is babysitting and needs to change her care, or DC is really sick and you can't come to dinner as  a result.)  Sounds like you already got this part, though.

She may find another way to seek attention but you probably don't need melodramatic health crap with a new baby around.  I hope she lays off.
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Ah, yeah. Anemia is an illness. It is not a symptom. There are many different types of anemia each with their own cause(s).

Cough, fever, pain, fatigue are symptoms.

And yes, anemia can be debilitating if it is severe.[/quote]

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