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[quote=Anonymous]OP - you MIL sounds like a severe hypochondriac and probably has severe anxiety issues too. My MIL is the same and it is VERY tough to deal with at times. The best thing that I have found is not to ignore the questions or concerns, but to answer as briefly as possible and change the topic. Her anxiety (and attention-seeking behavior) will only get worse if you ignore her completely. Also, don't give her advice on her own symptoms - she will not listen or will talk about it constantly. Just let her say what she needs to say about her health, say you're sorry to hear she's not feeling well, offer to get her tea or something to eat (whatever may calm her down) and then change the subject. It truly is frustrating to deal with, but remind yourself that she is too old to change (I'm assuming she is older) and that offering her a little kindness won't hurt you. Not going to lie, though, you may need to put that phrase on constant repeat in your head on some days to simply get through your visit...

Good luck![/quote]

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