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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. I am happily married with 2 great kids. And yes, I feel like the slighted sibling.

In a nutshell my (married) sister is extremely needy and dependent and always has been. My parents bend over backwards to help her out/coddle her, etc. My sister and my mother both are extremely melodramatic and there is always some major drama in my sister's life requiring my mom to drop everything and help her out.

I've always been more independent, and DH and I have a good life, marriage, etc. so I think my parents just think they don't need to "worry" about me, and focus all of their energy/efforts on her.

I've tried talking with them several times VERY CANDIDLY about how this really hurts my feelings and they always vehemently deny that its true, and usually my mom ends up crying and I end up feeling like a douche. So I don't want to discuss it with them any more, I just want to figure out how to cope with it on my own without wanting to explode with frustration.[/quote]

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