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[quote=Anonymous]Some may disagree, but for us it was important that one person was getting a decent night's sleep. It made no sense that both parents would be sleep-deprived loons. Since you'll be nursing, that means you will be up in the middle of the night. It can feel lonely. I found that setting up in another room where I could watch some tv while nursing helped. Also, with number 2 (a December baby), I discovered the Kangaroo Korner sling pouch. A friend bought me a fleece one, and it was a lifesaver. I would nurse and then drop the baby in it so we were chest to chest. If she was fussy, walking with her for a just a few minutes in the pouch did the trick. Since I was up during the night, I did sleep during the day. That meant I didn't do things like grocery shopping or making dinner. The person who was getting sleep could do that. Finally, pick one simple thing to accomplish each day. That will help you stay positive and focused. Some days that accomplishment was taking a shower or emptying the dishwasher or going to the ped's office. Keep it simple. Having a November baby means that your days will be short and your nights will be long. Get out for a walk during the day. The baby will be fine. Enjoy every minute. [/quote]
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