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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with PP.  Let them know that they are free to contact exDH and schedule a visit through him.  I would also check with your attorney on the likelihood of them getting visitation rights (I think it's slim but am not a lawyer - I just thought I heard that somewhere).

The thing I would be really worried about is if they see your kids - even in a neutral place with you around - that they will "take notes" on anything they could use to help your ex regain custody - they could even lie or embellish something (when we met little jack and jill at the park, jill told us that their mom leaves them alone at home).  And even if it doesn't work - you would have wasted lots of $$ defending baseless claims.

I would spend that money asking your attorney of the chances of them getting visitation rights.  My bet is that they've asked their own attorney, who told them it was very slim, so they haven't pursued it.

Actually, now that I'm thinking this through, I don't even think you should suggest they visit the kids through your ex.  I would simply not respond to any requests they make about visitations.  Just don't even address it.  Let them "ask" all they want.  you have every right to ignore it. [/quote]

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