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[quote=Anonymous]We have a very complicated marriage/divorce/remarriage family dynamic with my parents/in-laws. To make the explanation as simple as possible, my father has a key to the family vacation home as he will help out if there are things that need to be fixed (but it isn't his home anymore), and recently decided that he wanted to retire nearby the family vacation home. We have been on vacation for three days, and EVERY SINGLE DAY, he randomly stops by the house and lets himself in "because he happened to be in town" (he lives about 20 miles away).  Our kids take a two-hour camp each day, and he knows this, and he comes by when they aren't here, so he really can't say that he's stopping by to see the kids.

Every single time, I have explained to him that I need those two hours to work, and that we value our privacy, and, more importantly, that he cannot stop by unannouced. He doesn't care!!!!  He told me that he is the father and he will stop by whenever he wants.  I can't change the lock, because there are literally about 20 people who use this house and it will throw everything into turmoil, and b/c he needs a key anyway for the times when he is helping out.

How do I set boundaries with someone who won't respect boundaries? [/quote]

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