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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am 46. HHI = 160K. My retirement savings is 414K. My spouse has saved nothing. Two kids, 7 & 5. College savings = 80K. Home equity = 350. Emergency fund = 45K, which is a touch more than 6 months expenses. I'd like to be done with it and push up the 401K (currently putting in only enough to get the match), but I have earmarked a huge chunk of it as a kind of divorce contingency fund. It may happen; it may not. It depends on what hour you ask me and I want to be prepared. I am scared. And yes, it came from separate property that has not been commingled. The problem is that I just don't know when to stop emergency funding? A year's expenses? Two? No debt other than mortgage. Thanks very much.[/quote] You are doing fine. When you get worried (as we did) remind yourself this: the kids can borrow for college. You do not owe them 100% paid for college. You can move somewhere that is less expensive if you need to. If you need to change, you can.[/quote] THANK YOU.[/quote]
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