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[quote=Anonymous]14:32--another thing--talk to SIL and/or BIL about what the plan is for supporting him. Does he need to go to a meeting? Where is it located? What time? Also, what are your "bottom lines?" meaning what behavior will tip you over the edge (besides drinking). You've said he's an asshole. So if he starts using profanity or referring to the President as the n-word, is that grounds for him leaving? This needs to be communicated before they arrive. It's okay to say to SIL that you welcome her and support his recovery AND that you're apprehensive about the visit. [/quote]
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