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[quote=Anonymous]My 13 year old niece and her parents recently stayed with us.  My niece has always been heavy set. I recognize that all kids are different so it never bothered me and so long it didn't bother her I left it alone. 
On her most recent visit, I noticed that her eating habits have taken a significant turn for the worse.  She will eat huge portions and ask for equally sized seconds. In addition, she will eat whatever anyone else doesn't finish. She follows all meals with dessert ( a must have for her) which will also often involve seconds.  She never eats fruits or vegetables and she snacks constantly in between meals.

Her parents (my brother and sister-in-law) are totally oblivious to this.  They don't say a thing to her.   My question is should I mind my own business and leave this alone or should I mention something to her and/or her parents?

While over my husband I spoke to her about the importance of eating healthy. We even picked "Super Size Me"  for movie night.    I know teenage girls are prone to eating disorders resulting from low self-esteem.  I don't want to make an issue out of something that will ultimately hurt her.  Still, I love my niece.  My concern is about her future physical and mental well being.

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