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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry OP. Have you had a very direct (calm) conversation with him where you tell him that you love him and want the marriage to work but are not sure that you can see a future without addressing this problem directly? I'm not saying issue an ultimatum. I am saying be sure that he has heard you, in a calm discussion, saying very clearly that divorce may be on the table as a result of what is - for you - a very serious problem. You can say "I need to know that you understand how serious an issue this is for me. I want our marriage to work but currently it is not working for me. I cannot foresee the lifelong marriage we both want with current circumstances. I need to know whether you are willing to work on this with me?" That isn't an ultimatum but is a clear, fair statement of where you are. Then you at least are giving him the chance to make a decision about what he is willing or able to do. [/quote]
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