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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Im so thrilled that this little girl is going back to her parents (yes, the adoptive parents are her real parents). I look at my 7 month old and I am so attached to her I can't imagine someone taking her from me at 27 months. That poor girl would have been crying for her mom and dad and been surrounded by strangers. The bio dad sounds like a real piece of work too. Total loser. The indian culture (whats left of it, but lets be real, the schools, suicide and drinking on reservations is hardly something good for most kids) does not trump whats best for the child. This is why I would be scared shitless to either foster or adopt domestically. If there is a legal defense fund for the parents I will gladly make a donation.[/quote] When you adopt, you assume a huge legal risk. Until an adoption is finalized, you always risk the return of a child. Many adoptions are completed by 7 months and the true legal risk is days to 30-60 days, but it happens when the agency, family adopting, and attorney's do shady things like they did in this situation. The true parents are the father and this child belongs with her father. Most parents, including all of us, are "pieces of work" and no parent is perfect. His rights as a parent come first, just as what you would want with your child. The family trying to adopt are total losers for continuing this fight when they knew the legal risk and did not proceed with the adoption in a fair, legal and ethical way.[/quote]
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