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[quote=Anonymous]DH here. Similar situation. I have stopped making overtures because do not want to deal with rejection, her getting stressed, and to be frank, not that great sex. So find myself probably going on 3-4 years of no sex. DW is great in alot of ways but I have found that the lack of affection makes me more critical of her overall in my mind. Current thinking is stay for kids to get to college and then probably either divorce or stay roommates and have discrete "fwb" affair on the side.

I will say that is partly my fault; we never had equal sex drives and in hindsight I should have probably been more direct in my communications and expectations during courtship. I didn't think that you should make sex such a key driver of deciding upon spousal qualities but it is not just about sex - it is about affection and empathy. I find my DW lacks both which is more troubling than actually doing the deed.

Do not really have an answer for you. I think you have to chart your own waters. Best of luck.[/quote]

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