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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why is it, that my MIL thinks her adult children are walk on water? If one of them shit on the floor, I swear, she'd call it beautiful. But if one of her sons or daughter in laws cleaned it up, she'd say it wasn't good enough. Yes, a crazy example, but you get the idea. My SIL, for the first time in months, did something today to help elderly MIL (weeded the mini-front yard). [b]I cook, clean and help her run errands weekly. [/b][b] MIL looked at me and said, "Isn't ______ just a sweetie? She's always looking out for her mother." I almost vomited. I smiled and nodded my head, but it took everything in me not to say, "Really? What else has she done lately?" My delusional MIL makes my stomach turn. [/quote] Tell your DH that you are stressed out and need a break and that his sister and he needs to step up and do more for THEIR mom. Give them two weeks to figure out and then take a break. Once they get into the swing of things, you can step back in and take a turn if you feel like it. But you don't have to. It's not your mom. They can figure it out, hire help, or put her in a nursing home. [/quote]
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