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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the more reasons you give, the more they have to "chew" on so to speak Just say no [/quote] This. Stop coming up with your arguments, The more reasons, the more engagement. Just say it makes you uncomfortable and keep repeating that. He'll get the message faster if you keep your answer simple. [/quote] Please don't do this. There is nothing more frustratin that talking to my wife about something and she just repeats no again and again. Have a logical structured POV to share, but don't just say "its a joint decision and I say no". That will not make it feel like he's being heard and hell want to dig in. Open and honest communication is the path. [/quote] Why don't you listen to your wife then? People only stop giving reasons when they know what they are not being listened to. OP's DH eventually is going to hear a flat no - so OP stand firm on it. [/quote]
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