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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is she an only child?
I think she shouldn't be allowed to hang out at the friends house. Call the dad and politely say you aren't ok with your daughter smkng illegal drugs and ask him not to let them happen again.
But she should be able to hang out with her friend in your house, the movies, whatever
A lot of people in California smoke pot. I never did and hate it but if you have an issue with it you probably should not have forced your dd to move friendless to San Fran mid high school when she had lots of friends back home. Why did you not just wait two years?[/quote]

OP again (sorry if I double posted, didn't see this post until I replied to the other poster). I really wanted to put it off until college, but it's been a very difficult time for my family and I don't know how much time I have left with my sister, who is currently receiving treatment for stage 3 ovarian cancer. Also, we moved from SF to a safer, suburban area with better public schools to improve DD's chances for college admission. 
I guess it's time to allow her to go out with her friend without me, as long as they don't go to her house. 
I definitely plan on calling her parents, but haven't been able to think of what I should say. I was hoping it would be okay without having to talk to them, and I didn't want it going the wrong way and have them antagonize me and DD.  Thanks for the response. I guess the best thing to do is to be polite and non-threatening.[/quote]

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