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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with OP that it's weird to have her MIL try to get her to practice or give a preview of what OP is supposed to say about her. OP, just tell her that you're honored that she wants you to speak at her funeral and will be sure to take all her suggestions into account (which is honest, since you can take them into account but still reject or accept them). But then tell her that these conversations are really difficult for you and you are sorry but you can't keep talking about it with her, and you're sure she understands that thinking about her funeral makes you too sad. Reassure her that you've "got this" and then after that conversation just deflect, demur, and change the subject when she brings it up. Leave the room if you have to.[/quote]
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