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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What are you planning to do in your hometown? I mean, where are you planning to stay? Where are you planning to celebrate Thanksgiving?

OP, I don't think you're thinking rationally at all here. Thanksgiving is such a family-based holiday, and you're deserting your family who loves you to go see someone who spit in your face. Or! You're dragging your family to see someone who physically assaulted you and may do that again, except this time, in front of an impressionable 8 year old boy.

Either way you've lost your marbles completely. If you want to go see your mother don't do it on Thanksgiving, and don't bring your small child with you. [/quote]

ds is my only family, other than him, Im alone
he also wont be at my mothers when I first get there, only if it goes ok will I go get him. He'll be at a daycare nearby [/quote]

Oh my god, OP, you have completely gone over the deep end! So let's look at this picture together: it's Thanksgiving. You're taking your son and traveling somewhere he's never been before in his entire life. You plan to DUMP HIM IN A DAYCARE during Thanksgiving weekend while you go to see a woman who physically assaulted you last time you saw each other. Then, if you think "it goes ok" you will go fetch your son from this daycare where he knows nobody (which is magically open?) and bring him to your mother? You haven't considered that things could possibly take a turn for the worse? That sometimes people drink during stressful situations AND/OR during holidays? LADY TAKE A LOOK AT YOUR PLAN AND JOIN ME IN SEEING THE CRAZY! [/quote]

You dont have to be so ugly about it, but yes, I see where you are coming from. The daycare I called is open M-W of Thanksgiving week. 
To the other poster, no, the relationship has always been strained[/quote]

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