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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am the OP. Thanks for all the comments, esp the meditation one.

I am finding that most anxiety materials address general anxiety, fears and worries. My DS is not generally anxious, he likes going to new places, trying new things and sports. He doesn't have fear of monsters or anything like that. 
The problem is really social, he is very very shy. He will NEVER raise his hand in a group, he suffers when he has to speak in front of a group (doesn't like being the center of attention, sweaty hands, etc.), and has a hard time saying hi and bye to neighbours etc, thank yous are difficult, etc. obviously one of the main issue is that, when he is teased, even in a joking way by peers, his reaction prompts more teasing, so he is susceptible to being bullied etc.  
He does have friends and loves playing, running around etc and he is loud when he is comfortable.
But he is not assertive at all, he is always so worried about what others will think!
I obviously try to model, I praise him, I try to give him tips, etc.
Anyway, was wondering if there are any particular books we can look at together etc. 
but not general anxiety stuff, it really does not apply.
Therapist is great and keeps me in the loop.[/quote]

OP, kids learn social skills from their peers not their parents or other adults.  A social skills group might be helpful.  (I also wouldn't discount the idea of medication if therapy and practicing his social skills doesn't improve his ability to interact in a social setting.)
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