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[quote=Anonymous]Was checking his cell phone history and it looks like he did some google search on a name that brought up search results like "50 most popular porn stars" and such.  He seems to have googled this name, which is obviously a porn star, several times and looked at videos.  I haven't actually clicked to open the sites yet, but I will.

Looking for advice on how to handle this.  First, I know teens are going to find and look at porn, but isn't this a bit young?  Also, I don't want him forming ideas about sexual relationships based on porn, its just unrealistic.

My husband said I should talk to him, but I think it will be less embarassing for my son if my hubby does it.  I think my husband should let him know that if he ever has  questions about sex he can feel free to ask either of us, or we can buy him a book if he prefers, but that internet porn is not a realistic avenue to learn about sex.  And also that it is inappropriate for him to be looking at it.  Any other points we should make?

And now, as for the phone I'm deciding what I should do.  Are there parental controls that can be used for the phone internet?  The only other alternative is remove internet acccess from his phone.  I don't want to over-react but I do want to take advantage of this opportunity to openpup some dialogue with my son on the topic.  Would appreciate hearing from anyone who has btdt.[/quote]

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