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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband and I each have our own accounts - nothing joint. We each are responsible for certain bills based on our respective salaries. We also each contribute certain amount to college savings and our joint retirement account. I canNOT imagine having him see what I spend on certain things, nor can he (we've discussed). We've managed this way for 12 years, 3 kids, years of tuition - have NEVER fought about money - ever. [/quote] I can respect the choice when its made in an open and equitable fashion. I have my own account because I don't balance my checkbook - never have - but my wife does. Sharing a checking account drove her bonko. Otherwise all our assets are joint and shared. I get the concept of having a slush fund of a few grand so you can pamper yourself here or there but the concept of squirreling away money secretly.... It's a fucking marriage....[/quote]
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