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[quote=Anonymous]I did #1 back when I thought I didn't want kids: my fancy job was interesting and I was good at it, but it was hurting my health and my relationships.  I took a large pay cut to move to government, where I still am very good at my job -- but only for 40 hours a week, some of those telework.

Once in government, though, I did "lean in" even while planning a family.  While pregnant I applied for a more ambitious and higher paying government position that was less stable and I knew could present some maternity leave issues.  It was just luck that the position came open while I was pregnant: I was not doing it because of the pregnancy or as a last chance at promotion.  I also was not all-in as far as career ambitions: I made clear I would turn down any offer that did not allow for regular telework days.

I have not contemplated anything close to the hours (or pay) of my old job, and don't expect that I ever will.  But, when my kid is school-aged I could see myself taking a less stable or secure job that offered even more flexibility.[/quote]

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