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[quote=Anonymous]DH and I have a continuing battle about his family, I have repeatedly asked him to check with me about scheduling their stays at our house.  I have no problem with them staying but feel that I should at least be consulted with the scheduling.  It never happens. We end up getting into a huge fight and all he ever says is, " why do you hate me family.". To me, it's not about the family it's about respect, if he is going to sign me up for the responsibilities of hosting shouldn't I be consulted first?

My sister asked us to vacation with her and offered up several dates that worked for her family.  I told her the dates that also worked for ours.  We agreed on a week.  We take an annua, trip every summer to visit DH's family but because my sister asked us to vacation with her we did not schedule this summer trip.  Two weeks ago she sent wn email with new dates to which I immediately responded that I previously told her those dates would not work for us. Never heard back.  Called her to followup and she said they were going the week we cannot go.  I am beyond pissed.  Thankfully we can still manage to take our regular trip but I still can't get beyond being extremely angry with her.  This is her mo and DH even said this would happen.  Now knave to listen to his sniide comments about what a flake she is.

Am I just being ov sensitive to all this?  I just feel like I've had enough of people thinking I don't matter.  These are just two examples of repeated behavior by these two people and I honestly feel like crying.  Whenever I say anything they both always respond with "get over yourself" attitudes.  How do I deal...[/quote]

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