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[quote=Anonymous]WOW. First, I am sorry for what you have gone through and nobody should be treated like that (especially from parents)! Without hearing the other side or knowing the whole story, the non-bulleted snapshot doessn't do this justice. This has been going on for WAY to long OP. Please, forgive your parents. And. Move. On. You need to focus on YOU and YOUR nuclear family now. You say you have a husband, car, child, house, all these things to be proud of with a fabulous life? Focus on that. Ignore their phone calls.

In fact, I would tell them point blank- I'm sorry mom & dad, but this behavior is no longer acceptable. You may not make me feel this way/talk like that to me and I wish you the best in the future. Love you, ect yada yada *hang up*  And let it go. You are better than that. They don't hold the authority on trashing people, no matter who they are. It hurts when it is your family that does this...I've been there. They are not going to change. AND it wouldn't surprise me if they are 'trashing' you because they are in fact jealous of your lifestyle and the fact the you live x,y,z. That's their problem to figure out.

OP, forgive and let them go IMHO. Best of luck.[/quote]

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