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[quote=Anonymous]I think OP you are lost in the chaos. if you have portrayed this somewhat accurately then you are so used to their dysfunction then you no longer see how dysfunctional it is. I think you need a break from your parents. Don't call it cutting them out as you may want to send Christmas cards etc but you need to stop contact for a year or two to regain a sense of what is a healthy relationship with them and do you really want their dysfunction around your kid(s). In a couple years when you have distance and insight then you can decide if you want to reestablish constant. You can tell them you are taking a break to look after yourself and if in a year of two when you re-establish contact (if you do), and they decide to disown you....you have your aunt, your sisters, your DH's family (maybe) and others who can more than fill that role of loving family. You have lost perspective. You are not going to regain it while in regular contact with them.[/quote]
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