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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I guess I should have expected this type of response from DCUM.  Thank you, 9:22.  Forget the rest of you.  Won't be checking this thread again.[/quote]

Well, judging by this response, OP deserves what she gets.  My guess is that there were red flags before she married him, but she refused to recognize them and/or listen to people tell her she shouldn't marry him.

I really dislike people who ASK for advice, but then say, "but don't give me the truth, only the kind of advice I can stomach," and then they pout and shut down.

She sounds childish, so no wonder her husband doesn't see her as a partner and doesn't consult her.

I don't know what kind of advice she is looking for.  She basically says her husband has flat out said he doesn't need to consult her, said he won't go to counseling and has already given away a couple thousand dollars and agreed to a relative *living* with them for an indefinite period of time.

It's pretty clear he doesn't want to compromise and/or include her.  It seems to me the only choice is to draw boundaries and if he refuses to accept them or work with her, then leave.

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