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Reply to "DH doesn't include me in decisions that affect us as a family"
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[quote=Anonymous]You're only screwed if he really refuses to see that the two of you need to make major decisions together. It's not about him getting permission, it's about the fact that decisions that affect your joint finances and your home together need to be made together. I think you should sit down and talk to him--instead of saying what he "has" to do, phrase it in terms of how you feel--you thought the two of you were a team, but when he makes important decisions without talking about it with you first, you feel . . . . however it makes you feel. Unimportant to him? Excluded? Powerless in your relationship? Sad? Whatever. Presumably you knew that family was important to him and that he takes what he sees as family obligations seriously before you married him, and hopefully you value that trait in him, but you are also part of his family now and you want to be treated that way. [/quote]
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