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[quote=Anonymous]In laws (their son and I are separated and getting a divorce) keep nagging to get DS out there for what is 12 days to 2 weeks, generally alone. (One flies out to get him and one brings him back). With a divorce and everything going on, I think it's a terrible idea for a 2.5 year old to be alone without parents in a completely different state. Every few weeks, they pose the question again with a different set of dates. Today, it's 12 days. This time they included his dad on 5 days of the trip. I said I am OK with the trip with dad, but not alone. They and their son use it to to say I'm alienating our son from them (not accurate, I never bad mouth them and I send them daily pictures or funny things he says and set up Skype calls or phone calls). I don't know what to do, I don't have anything legal about this yet, meeting with attorney soon to discuss but I wanted to see. 1. do you send your children alone to spend time with your parents or your in-laws alone when they're that young? 2. Do any of you have any advice on how to shut this down once and for all? I'd hate to get it nasty. I don't like them but I want them to have a normal relationship with DS. For his sake. But this is driving me crazy! They're so freaking persistent. Despite me explaining to them my reservations several times. [/quote]
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