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[quote=Anonymous]Yes, and I have been with DH for 18 years, married for 12, 3 kids and parents, esp my mother.  I have asked them to stop, and it came to a head a few years ago and I was barely speaking to them for a year.  I made amends for my children's sake.  I had it out with them last summer when they begged us to vacation with them at the beach and they started at it again.

my recommendation to OP is to stand your ground, and calmly but firmly tell them, this is my husband and father of my children and my loyalty must be and is with him.  If you cannot say anything nice about him then say nothing, in front of him, me and the children. DH is a good husband, father and provider, he isn't going anywhere.  You need to get over your issues or we can't spend time with each other.  That isn't what I want, so please make the better choice

This is what I said to my parents and I packed the car and we left the beach early.  It is a never ending battle, but you have to be on DHs side.[/quote]

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