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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] OP, are you serious? I honestly can't stand wives like you. I know your type. You think pot is bad so your husband had to give it up. Unless the guy is doing crack cocaine or losing jobs, give him a god da*n break. Nobody likes a nagging, boring wife. What's the big deal??? He didn't cheat or kill someone. I don't smoke pot but don't see the big deal in all of this.

Signed,
                                                                                                  A  wife that finds you annoying.[/quote]

[quote]I have to agree with 21:44 PP.

Sorry OP DW, but you are being a huge pain in the ass. Your husband lies to you because you are forbidding him from doing something he enjoys. This is no different than him enjoying glasses of wine after work a few nights per week. Which is something you probably indulge in, if I had to guess.

Unless he's pissing away lots of money or letting it interfere with his career, this is a non-issue and you're overreacting. Let him smoke weed occasionally, so long as he's honest with you about it. He wants a fun, supportive partner, not another mother.[/quote]

NP here, but you two are the PITAs.  I mean, 1st pp, why do you get to decide that pot-smoking is okay, but crack cocaine isn't?  What if I came to you and said you're the nag because crack cocaine is no big deal?  why do YOU get to draw the line in the sand for OP.  Same with you, 2nd pp.  Why do YOU get to decide that pot smoking is no different than a glass of wine after work?  There is a difference.  One is illegal.  And you don't know any of the back story of OP's life - so you DON'T get to decide where that line should be drawn.  She's asking about dealing with lies and betrayal.  Not whether it's okay to smoke.  [/quote]

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