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[quote=Anonymous]OP here.  While I respect that many people can use pot occasionally/casually/recreationally, my husband is not one of those people.  He has struggled with addiction his entire life, and prior to my meeting him he had a major addiction to cocaine.  When I met him, he had been clean a year (I didn't know this right away, obviously).  He told me then that he couldn't do any drugs casually, not even pot.  He and I made a commitment then that this wouldn't be part of our lives, and he was the one who wanted to make it express and concrete because he knew he couldn't do this casually.  So for us, pot smoking isn't something that is a harmless vice -- its part of the addiction.  Exemplified by the fact he went from zero to 60 with it, and then engaged in a consistent pattern of lying and deception.  This is not something that is harmless, but it is about relapse and -- if not caught/stopped/owned up to -- it is the beginning of a downhill slide.

But I know about addiction, and I know that what I'm dealing with related to the addiction is a whole other ball of wax with a ton of pitfalls and struggles that I wasn't seeking advice on, which is why I left that out of my original post.  [/quote]

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