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[quote=Anonymous]When kids were little, usually once a day, but sometimes every other day.  Honestly though, I think the conversations are smoother when there's a bit of time in between.  It can be hard to move into a phone relationship.  I would get frustrated if the kids didn't talk, because I felt bad for DH, and it just felt compulsory for all.

Also, DH travels to Asia, so it's not always convenient timing, and I didn't want to make an issue of it.  I also think calling in the morning works better for everyone, rather than at night.   Now that the kids are older (7-10), I tell them they can call him anytime, and one of them just likes to leave him messages.

You might also consider having DH leave notes, record bedtime stories, or start other rituals.  You'll find that kids move through different stages as they age re a parent's travel.

I think it can be hard being the "one left behind," but give your DH the benefit of the doubt.  It's not all fun and games to travel, and one's schedule can be at the mercy of others.  I told DH years ago, that for me, he needed to moan a bit about the travel, so that I could understand it was difficult for him too.  You are going to have to find out what works for your family through trial and error.  GL![/quote]

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